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Sometimes we need a nudge to keep on learning, and not get stuck.
I’ll share a specific approach to make that happen.
Motivation. Why do we want to do this? To “learn” is
one reason. But there are deeper reasons:
- To build a trust-based mentoring relationship.
- To exercise growth mindset.
- To exercise coachability.
Learning is good. But permanently boosting your learning speed is
even better! Let’s make that happen.
Process. Follow these steps:
- Find someone you trust
- Write three or six answers, your choice
- Share the answers with the person you trust
Then make sure you do this again. Try starting with once a
month. That’s it!
Prompts to build awareness:
- What’s one example of something you think is hard?
- What do you want to learn?
- What’s something you’re good at?
Hard mode prompts: build awareness and
execute:
- What’s one example of something you think is hard? a. Can you give
one example of a person around you that finds this less hard?
- What do you want to learn? a. Can you give one example of an
activity that can help you learn that thing?
- What’s something you’re good at? a. Do you see anyone around you
that needs your help with that?
Now, do it! What’s hard? What you do want to learn?
What are you good at? Write those down and send to a friend!
Eating my own dogfood. Avoiding hard mode for
now.
- What’s one example of something you think is hard?
- Running Datomic in prod. How to connect to it, how to run
migrations, how to configure the underlying data store. I’ve never done
that successfully before. I tried once and failed. At that time, I tried
Datomic Cloud, but had never used AWS.
- What do you want to learn?
- Writing apps with Electric
Clojure and Datomic.
- What’s something you’re good at?
- I’d like to think I’m decently good at being honest with myself
about the things I don’t know. But at the same time, I feel like that
can rub some people off the wrong way, that it’s too impolite, too
direct.
Note: you don’t have to share your answers in public. Share with
someone you trust first! Learning is not meant to be maximally scare or
maximally hard. The people you trust tend to care about you too. You
don’t have to go alone!